Somewhere along the way, Nigerians made peace with being sick on and off. Constant back pain. The headache that never fully goes away. Malaria every few months. The tiredness that rest does not resolve. We started calling it managing. Managing your back. Managing your BP. Managing your stress. Managing, managing, managing.
This managing mindset is the enemy within. Quiet. Calm. Yet deadly.
And life in Nigeria does not wait. Business is sharper. The hustle is louder. Social media has turned every lane into a competition. Opportunities move quickly. And so do the people chasing them. Nobody is slowing down because your back hurts. Or because you are in and out of hospital.
And that is the part people miss. The cost of staying down is not just your body. It is the business you were supposed to build. The day you were supposed to show up. The parent you were supposed to look after. The child who needed you present. Not bedridden.
Unfortunately, managing might seem cheap. But it is not. Aside from the fact that it can cost you your life, the years of small bills, small tests, small drugs, and small hospital visits quietly add up to far more than one proper intervention would have cost. Which is absurd. That we would willingly pay such a high price for trying to be cheap. Especially when we are serious about our money. Strategic with our business. Protective of our assets. But when it comes to our health, Nigerians like managing small small.
This managing small small, is an unwise decision to give a threat the chance to become a disaster. Common sense is knowing that something small can become something big. And it is better to act early than to beg later.
The good news is that the times have also changed in your favour. You no longer have to chase a doctor at a public hospital when things get bad. You can have your own doctor, your own care team, retained for you. Watching your body before the body forces a crisis. Helping you stay ahead. Not catch up.
Not just for you. But also for the people around you. Friends. Family. A mum who might be carrying back pain, high BP, or rising sugar quietly for years. Or a father who might have long accepted aches, pains, and being unwell as just what getting old means. These are the quiet things that end in loud ways. A stroke. A heart attack. A sudden hospital admission that no one saw coming. They deserve more than managing.
Do not be the person who keeps saying, one day, I go check. That one day is now.
You only get one life. Stop managing it.
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K.Aina
May 06, 2026The cost of managing.